The station

Someone, who shall remain nameless gave me this story today.

I am not into all this love lovie types of poems and stories. I hated the book The Secret and find books like the Last Lecture self centred and pointless, they teach me nothing about me. This short musing made me think, life really is too short (cliched, I know) but rushing around trying to do things that lead you to a nameless goal is not what I want to be about. Trying to live and think in the present is a simple wisdom. Hope you enjoy this.

The station

Tucked away in our subconscious is an idyllic vision. We see ourselves traveling on a long trip that spans the continent. We are traveling by train. Out the windows we drink in the passing scene of cars on nearby highways, of children waving at the crossings, row upon row of corn and wheat, flatlands and valleys, mountains and rolling hillside, city skylines and village halls.

But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. Once we get there all our dreams will come true and the pieces of our lives will fit together like a jigsaw puzzle. How we restlessly pace the aisles, waiting, waiting for the station.

“When we reach the station that will be it!”
“When I’m 18!”
“When I’ve paid off the mortgage!”
”When I’ve put the last kid through college!”

Sooner of later we realize there is no station, no one place to arrive once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip. The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us.

“Relish the moment” is a good motto, especially when coupled with Psalm 118:24 “This is the day the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.” It isn’t the burdens of today that drive men mad. It is the regrets of yesterday and the fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.

So stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains, eat more ice cream, walk barefoot more often, watch more sunsets, laugh more, cry less.
Life must be lived as we go along.

The station will come soon enough.

JR Hastings

Roadworks in carlow part 231

It’s beoming like game to me.
How many roadworks can I spot in one day in the town of Carlow?
Here’s another one in the Dinn Ri car park.
I asked them what they were doing.
“just scitting” they replied immediately.
Or maybe, I made that last bit up.

The Ploughing Championships begin with the town in a mess!

The Ploughing Championships have returned to Athy for the 2nd year in a row. They cause great excitement for farmers indeed. The traffic is chaotic and all accommodation is booked out.

Carlow Town is being dug up at the minute. Everywhere you look, there’s a roadwork, builder scratching his head or a JCB. I hate the way they dig the road up, do what they have to do and leave the road in a general bad state of repair.The area by the Bus stops is being pulled apart to make way for some sort of mezzanine. The old Town Hall at the bottom of Dublin street is being demolished. The Green Road has a big pit going right through it. The River Barrow is being moved to prevent future flooding though the papers reckon it won’t help at all.

The council should have left all this roadworks until after the Ploughing. I wonder how long Carlow is going to look a mess for.

Here’s a photo of the Blackbog Road yesterday, there is usually never any traffic on this road.

It’s faster walking!

Fixx coffeehouse-Dawson Streer

I can’t keep up with the amount of new coffee shops in Dublin.
This place is on Dawson Street with bright orange and warm brown surroundings, it is a very relaxing place to spend a few hours.
The coffee is excellent. The Barista knew his stuff. I observed him for a while. Very efficient. The coffee house has a huge library at the back, where you are invited to borrow a book if you make a small donation to Irish Cancer research, a charity that we support.
It’s got free wifi which is ultra easy to hook up to. A basic, coffee shops,listen up!
They’ve got some really good looking cupcakes, rocky roads and scone here too with an espresso for €1.80 and a small americano at €2, it’s brilliant value. Some places in Carlow charge €3 for an espresso!
I shall name and shame them very soon!
The one suggestion I have is small. Don’t play Michael Bolton songs in your coffee house.
Ever.

Coventry City-my home town

Spent the weekend in Coventry. A family funeral so it wasn’t the best time to visit. My cousin took me around to my old memories. My first home in Fennell House and then before I came to Ireland in Matterson Road.
Coventry is a city that suffered from the world war. Everything in the centre was bombed and someone decided to rebuild the centre as a complete outdoor shopping precinct.
Fine then but now, not so. Spon street is an old and typically English looking street and this should have been the inspiration instead of more high street shops.
The Cathedral in Coventey is very impressive, the new area outside the theatre Belgrade(where I auditioned for Annie!) and the Transport Museum are all worth a visit if you’re here for the day.
My first school, St. Osburg’s is looking great. Brand new playgrounds, living garden and nice statue of St Osburg.
A lovely trip full of memories but a sad occasion to visit.
Uncle “friggit” John- can’t believe you’re gone. We will miss you.

Tivoli-a brand new day and enjoying Tagliacozzo again!

A day enjoying Tagliacozzo again and a brand new city-Tivoli
Yesterday, we had spent most of the day sitting around Tagliacozzo and sampling various beverages. We found another nice wine bar outside of the Piazza area. It seems to me that the older humans frequent this space and the younger humans socialise inside of the Piazza. This wine bar gave us heaps of snacks-biscuits, cheese, ham etc. We were actually still quite full but Simon was determined to investigate this German like pizza establishment we had noticed a few night before, right beside the train station. The Restaurant is outside in a real beer garden with real leaves full of things that like to bite and make lumps on your body.
The menu was mainly pizza with the odd hotdog thrown in for the German theme. Terry was delighted to see that they served beer by the litre and promptly ordered a litre glass of beer the size of his head. It caused a massive transformation. Terry was no longer the sullen and moody boy. The beer uplifted him and he primped and preened for the paparazzi. I have the photo to prove it
We all ordered pizza, which was fine and just lovely. They served real chips there too and I acted like I hadn’t eaten chip in years, savaging a full bowl with Marion.
The walk back up the hill was okay this time. We invented a game for Marion and Terry. The game was called “Can you find the way back up the mad hill with no directions?” Marion started off well but Terry gained an edge by remaining calm. Terry won 2-1. Yay for him! The game was over and we had succeeded in getting home.
We decided to have a bit of a sleep in and catch the train a bit later to Tivoli at 11:45 approximately.
The train journey from Tagliacozzo to Tivoli is just under an hour. We got off the train and walked towards where we thought the centre might be. We were right! Along the way, we saw the entrance to the Villa Gregoriana, an very old garden type ancient park. It starts right up on the top of the hill and used to be a big dumping ground. One of those Popes in 19th century decided to do it up and he did a pretty good job. It is well laid out with lots of signage. It costed €5 to enter and it helps the upkeep. We weaved our way down the steps to blue lagoon type pools, cooling views of waterfalls in the “Valley of hell” and ending up at the top exit where the 2 temples are. The temple of Vesta is in pretty good condition but only because some Christians turned it into their place of worships years ago. Good for them.
The whole site is covered with cute and very wild cats scavving bits of bread from the cafe at the top. They are much friendlier in Rome.
When we had finished the humid walk, we were sweating and semi-wrecked. The sign at the entrance had admitted the walk could be uncomfortable in places. Nice of them to warn us.
We then took a saunter into the city of Tivoli, about a 15 minute walk. On first glance, Tivoli is an run down and characterless city but upon investigation, it opens up a bit. It has its own style but we all agreed that it needed “doing up”
(this is a complete joke, by the way. Years ago in a school I was teaching in, we were all chatting in the staffroom about Rome. I had said I loved it but one teacher who shall be nameless forever more piped up “hmm, I don’t really like Rome, it’s a bit rundown”)
Therefore, we spent the day looking for ways to improve the appearance of a wonderfully ancient city. Tivoli is also home to the most famous ancient site of Hadrian’s gardens. It involves a day trip and we just decided not to do it on this occasion. We strolled around and drank lots of cafe americanos. Bliss actually.
Tagliacozzo was busy again when we got back in. I got a nice, fresh cocktail and the lads had Belgian beer, which made them very drunk. Light weights. 9%? They stopped at one bottle sensibly. We then brought them to the last restaurant on their list. The usual place? It’s the only restaurant right on the Piazza. It was packed by 8 o clock. I think Simon’s meal won tonight. He got a pasta with pesto with a twist of lumps of potato and green beans mixed through. Yum. I got a highly salty carbonara. I ate half. Marion for a mushroom ravoli, which was lovely but full on and Terry got the ravoli ragu I had the other night. Nice as well. We treated ourselves to an ice-cream from the home made ice-cream shop just off the square. I had the almond and dark choc scoop. So good to just stroll around and think you’re Italian. Gonna miss you, gelato!
The walk up the hill was hard again tonight as we couldn’t think of any games to play. Everyone stayed up reading and chatting but I hit the bed again just so I could wake up refreshed.
2 more days to go and it’s hot out there!

Carlow town fights the recession but should the town be fighting the Local Authorities too?

A fine picture of Mr Crotty today in the Irish Independent. (30/8/10)
Crotty’s Bakery was and is again a Carlow institution. We’ve lived in Carlow for about 7 years and about a year ago, Crotty’s Bakery reopened in a brand new location on Potato Market. Everyone I had spoken to was nostalgic about it, I was almost excited as I love home baked produce, as you may know from my blog!
To be honest, I have only ever bought something from there once. Cream cakes for my Mum! Crotty’s is an old fashioned bakery, old fashioned in the sense that it produce factory made tasting produce Now, maybe it isn’t factory made but the difference in look and taste between the home baked produce from Hennessey’s of Carlow or the Farmers’ Market is huge. But who am I to judge? They seem to be doing really well and the co-owner Tom Crotty is working really hard on bringing some foot fall into the centre of the town so all praise to him.

Carlow Town could be bigger, could be better, could be more special. I blame whoever makes the decisions for the town, I am presuming this is the Carlow Town Council.
The biggest mistake for the town of Carlow was building the Fairgreen Shopping Centre in the location it is now. The Fairgreen Shopping Centre is a good shopping centre as shopping centres go. The problem is that it is located just off the town centre, the area of Tullow Street. Carlow already had a shopping centre, built in the old Carlow Jail with a bit of character and a great feel to it. There was plenty room to put some good shops in this building or possibly expand. It is also right in the middle of the town centre. Perfect, you’d think. What is happening is that most shoppers or visitors are drawn to the magnet of the Fairgreen and avoid the Town Centre unless they have to. The Fairgreen should have been built way out of the town or placed in the existing Carlow Shopping Centre.
Tullow Street has a Kilkenny City vibe to it. If I had full creative control in the Council, I’d open up Tullow Street and get some really good shops like local bakeries(okay, Crotty’s can come in!), cafes, delis and Irish boutiques. There are some pubs and restaurants on Tullow Street but they are of the student variety. My beautician( the Sanctuary on Tullow Street) tells me that be Town Council charge every business for putting tables and chairs out on the street. Very foolish of the Town Council.
Recently, with the opening of Visual Theatre and Arts Centre a funky little area has started to develop just off Tullow Street. Cathedral bookshop, Mimosa Wine bar, St Patrick’s College and Lennon’s cafe bar are what the Town Council need to encourage and support financially and any other way they can. I know the Council has put huge investment into Visual and it has paid off. It’s pretty amazing.

However, I totally agree with Carlow developer Johnny Harmon(of Harmon’s Pub), he recently had renovated his bar and it is looking rather fab. He blames the council saying that “the local authorities are not listening to businesses and charge very high rates…a building next to my bar(sic)is empty…the council wanted €187,000 to develop it.” Harmon is not just being pie in the sky, he comes up with some nuggets of advice for the Council. “The banks need to back off…abolish the parking fees in Carlow…our politicians should have more business experience.”

Ohhh, parking in Carlow Town, I’m ready to rant! The parking situation in Carlow is just horrific. You can park for free in the Fairgreen(another reason to be drawn to it’s magnet) for 3 hours but you have to pay for parking everywhere else in the town. The main car park in the town is Dinn Ri. Recently, they increased their prices to €1. I refuse to park here on principle as I’ve been clamped here twice. €40 a pop for the fine. On those two occasions, it’s been an innocent forgetfulness-shopping or coffee took over and when I returned to my car, a nice, shiny ticket was hanging in my windscreen. I park in the nearby Superquinn for one reason only. You can pay on exit.
On a recent stop off in Roscommon Town, I searched for a parking meter. There were none to be seen. I’d been caught out before so I asked a passerby. She informed me that parking is free in Roscommon. Brilliant. Every time we travel to Mayo(where I’m originally from), we stop in Roscommon and eat and drink for as long as we like. Well done, Roscommon Town Council. Could you speak to ours, please?
Carlow Town Council need to get real. They really have one aim. To bring business and people who spend money back into the Town. They also need to admit that the Fairgreen with it’s increasing empty units was a mistake for the Town Centre. They need to start listening to people like Tom Crotty and Johnny Harmon.
Of course, they won’t though. They’re too busy building an obsessive amount of pedestrian crossings and flashing lights so McDonalds can stay in business.

Rant over…until tomorrow.

The sting of it all

I knew it was going to happen.
One day.
I hate wasps. I hate the look of them. Their thinness. Their pokey little stinger at the end of their body. The colour of them, bright yellow and black, the noise they make, the way they zoom in and out and interrupt a vey nice soirée outside, I hate them.
You might notice that I am not scared of their sting or the pain that comes with it.
Today, we were locking up and I had forgotten my keys. I went to go back in and Simon brought in the bin. There was a wasp hovering around the bin and I tried to ignore it. Next minute, I felt a tiny pinch of my skin on my shoulder. I knew it was a wasp straightaway, I have spent my life running from them so I knew.
I flicked it and felt it’s horrid little body, I squealed and stripped off my blouse and shoes. I don’t know why I took my shoes off! Simon immediately checked out my shoulder. There was nothing there but I could feel a slight pain. He went to google stings and what to do. Within minutes, the sting had grown into a small white lump with a little hole, like an empty black head. Simon applied white wine vinegar and then an ice cube wrapped up. The Internet is great! For a bee, you have to take the sting out but for a wasp, you just need to apply some form of acid, like vinegar, lemon or even tomato will do!
The pain was numbed but I was freaking out. The idea of it crawling on my shoulder and hurting me for no reason was playing on my mind. Simon looked after me while I reverted back to being a 7 year old and pouted with teary eyes.
A quick visit to the chemist was needed, just in case I was dying. The sting had totally gone down thanks to the ice and lemon but the pharmacist sold me a wasp eeze spray and an antihistamine tablet, in case I was dying.
I rang my Mum, I knew she’d understand. She hates wasps more than me and advised me not to wear any nice smelly perfumes or creams until the wasps die off.
This morning, I had used an almond scrub, almond shower gel and almond moisturising cream. The wasp thought I was a big almond flower of some sort. Happy days for him. He was still lurking on my bag when we got back in the car!

The moral of the story is simple and you may even learn something from this.
Do not apply smelly anything to your body. Do not go outside until October. If an evil wasp does sting you, apply acid and then ice cubes. If you feel funny, visit pharmacist.

I bet a bee would never it.

Pescara, where the beautiful people go and Terry is age of Christ

Terry and Marion had popped over for a cuppa to visit us so we all took the train down early enough, grabbing a quick espresso at the train station. The journey took about 2 hours. Pescara train station is pretty big with plenty English magazines and books. We had no idea how to get to the Hotel so we took the chance to get a taxi, right outside the station. The taxi driver was a cool Italian guy who played some funky dance beats throughout our journey. The journey also took us quite a while and we realised later that we could have walked in about 30 minutes. Simon had booked a big room for the 4 of us. €150 for the night with breakfast. Not bad. Hotel Regent is right on the beachfront and was acceptably clean, cosy and orange.
I hate the beach. No, let me correct that, I don’t really hate the beach, I love the sea and the sand but the idea of sitting on the beach for longer than half an hour petrifies me. And bores me. I get a headche, I start to go mad, foaming at the mouth etc
The beach front in Pescara goes on and on and on, covered with coloured parasols, which you can rent for €9 a day. Lots of fabulously toned and tanned bodies with plenty male Italian posers, if you’re into that kind of thing.
Which I’m not.
The city of Pescara has a reputation for being a shoppers paradise. It is. Lots of beautiful boutiques, the usual European chain shops and lots of nice, simple and cheap Italian basic shops. There was a really nice shop called Tegrazzo, full of loungewear and basics in the stock colours, ladies and men! I stocked up on vests, tops and underwear. They seem really good quality. We will see.
Another lovely little shop I’ve came across in Chieti was L’erborolia”. There was a small more authentic one in Pescara. I treated myself to more almond stuff, a big tub of almond and olive moisturiser for €12. This would cost €40 in L’Occcitane! They also do really nice teas. I asked for a relaxing one for Simon as a present. Nicely wrapped up for me too.
Pescara is not just for women shoppers. Simon was very excited about the men’s clothes shops. He brought me around and showed me 120 different colours of shirts and ties. Beautiful clothes for men. I gave him my full blessing to press ahead and purchase loads of stuff. Terry was not excited by the shops or clothes. I tried my best but he was having none of it. He much preferred sitting, reading and drinking green tea.
As you may know, during the hours of 1-4, the Italians have a little rest for themselves. Pescara didn’t totally close but not all the shops were open. We sat in a nice beach cafe(of which there are millions) and drank copious amounts of espressos for 75c a pop. Well, Terry drank his usual green tea.
Over the evening, the green tea and espresso turned into prosecco for me and beer for the others later on. Really good prosecco.
We took a tip from our Abruzzo guidebook for dinner. Simon and the map led us to a restaurant that was gone on holiday. We went for the 2nd option and it turned out super well. It was called Cafe Jozz. We were welcomed in by the owner, Jozz. A jolly Santa like man in a big touristy red chef uniform. Jozz and the waiter had excellent English. He explained how it worked. You basically pay 1 of 3 prices, depending on how much you want to eat. We are not really big eaters so we all went for the €22 menu. Jozz wheels out the first course,a gloopy, green and eggy soup. Simon and Terry went for the soup and gave it the thumbs up. Simon hates egg but the green, healthy veg made him finish the bowl. There was plenty of salty bread with raisins left for us to munch on. Marion and I had gone for the pasta starter. Mine was delish and I think I won. Marion had some sort of creamy and pepper spaghetti thing while I had spaghetti covered in olive oil and pork mince and Parmesan. Good. Next up was the meat option. There was pork, chicken and lamb. Jozz kept giving me samples for free and Simon was convinced that we would have to pay as the samples were meal size portions for me! We didn’t. The wine was also excellent. I had a very dark, blush rose, which was v different from the usual sweet rose I’ve tried. The others shared a bottle of wine from the Montepuliciano grape in Abruzzo.
The dessert trolley came out. This was the only slight let down. Chocolate cake with marmalade liquor filling or Panna cotta type thing. Marion treated me for my birthday and we treated Terry for his birthday as he was the age of Christ that very day. The area of Cafe Jozz was thriving and very Spanish like. A really nice non touristy part of Pescara saturated with interesting looking restaurants. Cafe Jozz was really tasty, the hosts were very generous and the atmosphere was holiday like but not touristy like. Beautiful.
I wanted to get a taxi because I knew once we returned to Taglicozzo, we would we forced to walk forever more. The others wanted to walk, I tried to protest but the majority voted. We walked. The area around the Hotel was energised. I felt like going to bed so at midnight, We all took our beauty sleep. A lovely day in Pescara with more time for shopping tomorrow. Happy dream, Rozzie.
Breakfast was good. Lots of cake, ham and nutella items. We were catching the train back at 2 so Marion and I took a light saunter throughout the shops. The market by the train station was our first stop. We had read about this in the guidebook. The guidebook had recommended we haggle. I was so not going to haggle.
However, the bags were pretty amazing. Complete fakes. But really good fakes. The outside looked and felt like leather but the inside was bad quality. We had our eyes on a few Tod’s bags. All the others would be easily spotted as fakes whereas the Tod’s ones were a bit less in your face. Logos are not cool, real or not. The bag was worth €30 max. The man wanted €200. Forget it. We walked away and returned and tried again. I offered €30 again. He wanted €100. I told him €30 was my last offer. He was having none of it. He refused to haggle and got really annoyed and gave out about us. He put the bag back and turned away from us. We were shocked. No haggling. Fake bags for €100. Dont go. They won’t haggle. They’re far too expensive and the market guys just want to sleep and rip you off.
When we reached Tagliacozzo, the Piazza del’ Obelisco was busy out We seated ourselves in the hip Wine bar on the square. We all ordered cocktails, mine was a toxic fruit mixture of gin, gin, alcohol and gin. Some fruit liquor maybe too. It was served in a goldfish bowl. The others got smaller but lethal cocktails. Terry and Simon asked for the manly cocktails.
A big bowl of crisps and snacks of bread arrived to fill the gap before dinner. Simon had been raving about this very posh restaurant at the top of the square. He wanted to try this traditional dish of gnocchi and chickpeas. I had a feeling that this dish would not exist when we arrived there. This is a normal pattern of events for us. Simon reads about this amazing restaurant, off the beaten track. He gets hyped up about it and puts it on a pedestal and we find it after hours of climbing and getting lost. When we arrive, it’s either closed, not there or different.
Tonight, the dish was not there. Poor Simon.
We were lucky that they had many other wonderful things on the menu, we were not so lucky with the hosts. The owner should have been a computer technician, Simon noted. He had no personality or warmth and we ordered under pressure. The waiter was a lovely little( about 19, in case you think he was a primary school child working under slave labour conditions) boy who spoke only Italian. He was clearly and openly unnerved by me for some reason. He kept glancing at me nervously every time I said something scary like “Do you have rose wine?”
We all(but Marion) had a primo course. Simon and Terry had the gnocchi with truffles and cream and I had the ravoli with spinach and ricotta. I think I won though theirs was quite close. The main was plain lamb chop and but beautifully grilled and served with crispy, oily potato cubes. The dessert was possibly the best we have eaten in a long, long time. It had a long title but the word “chocolate” always glares at me from a menu. It was a small chocolate pudding with a perfectly, oozing and warm dark choc filling. Not too sweet, just yum. I told the little waiter that the dessert was excellent and gave him a big dramatic thumbs up. At last, his nerves vanished and he looked relieved and smiled. Maybe, this was ins first night and he was eager to please. Who knows? My bill with a glass of wine came to €30 for a 3 course meal with an exceedingly good dessert. The owner would want to grow a personality but if he did, more people might come. What would he do then?
Tomorrow is market day in Tagliacozzo.